How can something like this happen to two people who wanted a baby so much? How can it happen to two people who are good parents and want to share their love with a child? How can it happen to people who have a belief system and try to live their lives accordingly? The questions can go on and on. I just wish that with the wisdom I have gained I could say I have an answer, but I don't. I think the closest thing to an answer I can come up with is that there is no answer.
However, I can assure that are likely going to hear all sorts of theories from people who are trying to make me feel better. Things like, "it was meant to be," and "God has a plan for all of us," "there must have been something wrong," or, "you just have to try again." Again, the comments will go on and on. i just keep in my mind that most of those people are simply trying to find the same answers and sincerely attempting to be helpful.
But the pain is still in there....
A child that loses a parent is an orphan.
A man who loses his wife is a widower.
A woman who loses her husband is a widow.
There is no name for a parent that loses a child,
for there is no word to describe this pain.
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